These are the three main versions of the humanoid appearance of my OC Jamie McGhee, which can be separated as James (he/his), Jame (he or she), Jamie (she/her).
Although Jamie is genderfluid, she doesn't necessarily get upset when people accidentally call her by a different name or pronoun, the most she would do is just politely correct them.
Even if someone kept getting her name/pronoun wrong by accident, Jamie would still be very forgiving since they at least try.
The only time she would take offense is when a person purposefully disrespects the identity she was comfortable with that day.
Also, just because she's genderfluid, does not mean she is ashamed of being born female.
She just feels like it's not that simple. Some days she feels like a girl, some days she feels like a guy, and some days she feels inbetween the two.
In the end all she asks is people respect her and her identify.
Jamie McGhee (c) me
Art (c) me